Perth Sound Therapy and Life Coaching presents
Article:001 Regression and the Patterns of Suffering        Storme Reeves

Published 17.10.17

Over this last period in conjunction with my studies surrounding grief and
loss i have been identifying many aspects, levels and layers of the blueprint i
have recieved from my mother and the generations before her.
Through my daily interactions with my environment i receive the information
and stimulus to reflect back on my own reactions and responses to discover
exactly ‘what is my contribution to this interaction and what patterns, beliefs,
limitations am i using as my context?’
Blueprints. During my self work and discovery i have come to understand
what it means for me the concept of a blueprint in respect to things that are
passed onto you from your parents and the generations before them.
In my reading and experience i have seen first hand the concept of
epigenetics as discussed by Bruce Lipton in his book the Biology of Belief.
A week or two ago i found myself experiencing feelings of loss and sadness.
There have been some stressors in general in my life at present but this
appeared to have come on by itself. I was able to identify it by being mindful of
my mood and feelings and also by my responses to my environment.
It is my experience that if i am involved in a pattern which has its roots
based back in the years of conditioning approx 0-7 years my environment will
display and play out like a movie to reflect exactly those old beliefs and
patterns as if to provide proof that these are true and correct, and in my
context without an expanded awareness, intelligence , and an understanding
of the nature of things if that was all i knew then it would be to me true and
correct.
The feelings i had been experiencing were around loss, sadness, being
bullied, self pity, despondency, dejection, self doubt of my capabilities and a
sense of a lack of data to be able to manage and proceed forward.This last
piece of information “ a sense of a lack of data to be able to manage and
proceed forward”. was a direct clue that the part of me i needed to explore and
to address was indeed a young part or a young child aspect of myself.
I am 41 years old and i do indeed have the capabilities to manage and move
forward through conflict so technically the data for these skills exists within
myself but not for the child aspect which is the one that has been the creator
and pioneer of these old beliefs and patterns. If we look into the realm of
quantum physics we discover that there is in fact no linear constructs such as
time and everything is happening all at once. I have discovered with this in
mind that you may have some parts of yourself for example lets say the child
aspects that are in a state of disrepair in one area of development and at the
same time you have some other parts the older or adult parts that have
developed skills in this area of development. You will be able to move
forward in a positive direction to a point at which stage depending on the mass
of development or suffering from the parts that are in disrepair become a
critical mass and they can reach a tipping point and either lead to a place of
repair and healing or move in the direction of more suffering. This is all
dependent on our day to day choices around mindfulness, self care,
development and evolution.
When you have many aspects of yourself at different stages of repair or
disrepair you can identify a memory, an age and the origin of the belief
system or pattern that is behind the suffering and using tools such as
regression, hypnosis other counselling techniques and sound therapy you can
repair and bring new information and understanding to these aspects. As you
do this this allows those parts to connect and rejoin to the healthy and
balanced aspects of yourself. As you continue on this journey the more you
use this practice the greater the energetic mass of health, wellbeing and
balance is assimilated. The result is a stronger self, a natural resilience,
increased compassion and empathy for yourself and your environment, the
focus is moving more and more away from your own suffering because you
are tending to it and creating harmony and in turn you are more able to assist
and be present for those around you.
Please note that it is imperative in my experience of this type of work that
as much as possible the repair needs to be done by all three of your centersthose
being the moving centre, the emotional centre and the intellectual
centre. * Gurdjieff
During one of the hypnosis and regression sessions i did i went into the
session feeling bullied and completely overwhelmed. I had many parts
operating. I did not want any conflict anymore and i certainly did not want to
be picked on either .Also in my thoughts i was concerned about the welfare of
the other person whom i was having this experience with. I had a clear
understanding of their suffering which i would have been happy to speak
openly and perhaps do some of this kind of work so we both may be free of
the conflict and associated discomfort. I needed to search to find what was it
in myself that was contributing to the overwhelm and intensity of the situation.
Without the added intensity i as an adult under any normal circumstance
would be able to navigate through the resolution without much extreme of
emotions or distress. So here i found a child aspect of myself that was running
through this conflict with me and it was the part that was the most greatly
distressed.
This child aspect we can call 3yr old Storme. During the regression i
recalled a memory of when it appeared the rug had been pulled symbolically
from under my feet. At that memory recollection my mum was in a distressed
state herself and she was unable to connect to me and provide reassurance
or a sense of security to me. At age 3years as children we are all attached to
our primary caregivers emotional centre and there is no distinction between
our own and the primary caregivers. As my mum was experiencing high levels
of uncertainty and anxiety so did i. My perception was that i couldn’t find
certainty from my mum at that time so i then went off by myself, trying to
suppress the feeling but also feeling very alone. The belief which formed was
that this ‘distress’ can come from nowhere and you will be blindsided. The
thing you want the most which is to cling to your caregiver is not available in
complete or only partially. From there on the learnt behavior is to suppress the
feeling of uncertainty and move forward on your own, separating from your
environment.
This particular regression i used a technique to aid in bringing
understanding to the child aspect so they could learn a different behavior as
they would then have the data to choose differently. So the technique used
was for the 3yr old Storme to visualise looking into her mums heart and to see
what information was available there. I discovered so much pain, anguish and
sadness inside there. I was taken to memories of my mums where she was
bullied at school. I was then shown memories of my grandmothers suffering in
relation to conflict and back to her mother. Upon seeing this lineage of
suffering my understanding was so clear i became full of compassion,
empathy and acceptance. I continued in receiving bodytalk applications from
my colleague and we worked to create repair and to release this pattern of
suffering that had been passed on as a part of the generational blueprint to
myself and my daughter. The thoughts surrounding these events for myself
and the generation of women were “why is this happening to me” “i just want
to participate and be a part of this group without conflict” “i need order and
clarity so i can understand what is expected” “this has come from out of
nowhere i have been blindsided” “i am excluded” and so on.
It is important to note that my experience and memory there as a 3year old
child was also the memory and experience of my mum. We are so interwoven
that we simply inherit ad carry with us pretty much everything and given
certain choices and stimulus from our environment we can either stimulate
and repeat the steps that have gone before us or make new choices in a
different direction.
So inadvertently and unconsciously i had attracted in as a result of these
patterns and associated beliefs a similar experience for myself. Parts of me
were circulating the same thoughts and feelings whilst the mindful part of me
was observing them. In a nutshell i have it affirmed everyday in my
experiences that i am always co creating with my environment and i will
always have some pattern, issue or belief system that needs to be addressed
and investigated. As i change myself from within so does my environment
reflect these changes. This is how we can create a more harmonious world
from the inside out.

 

Perth Sound Therapy and Life Coaching presents
Article:002 Self Development for World Peace         Storme Reeves
Published 03.12.17
How do we know when and what to look for to evolve ourselves, find
deeper understanding, resolution and inner harmony?”
During my meditation i identified a part of myself that from a young age
would try to find in another person a sense of security and stability. If i felt
anxious or uncertain about anything i would look to my environment to find
the sense of groundedness in another person to connect into that.
If the person that was with me did not have that energy available my
response would be to draw away and separate myself from my
environment. I noticed this pattern in play the other day, only now i am an
adult but i still had this pattern running. I now have a daughter and in my
attempt to protect myself and find a sense of security i withdrew from my
environment but with my daughter to create an Us and Them scenario.
How many times do we see this occurring in our everyday interactions and
how interesting is it to be able to penetrate deeply into ourselves to identify
these patterns, how they operate and what is the root cause and
development of this pattern.
We could investigate in a holistic approach what could be a contributor
to the development of this pattern in ourselves looking deeply into
psychological and behavioral development predominantly from 0-10years
old to find where we may have learned negative behaviors or
misunderstanding that have grown to be habitual patterns within our living
experience. We could investigate past life experiences if this is your cup of
tea or examine any traumas or abuse in this life and also take into account
the influence and very real presence of our inherited beliefs, disease,
illness and patterning from our family generations. The wonderful thing is
going on this path of discovery leads to a greater sense of peace,
understanding, compassion, self love and a greater capacity to help
ourselves and those we are in contact with. This would mainly be our
family, friends and community and this is very important. These
understandings are a piece in the jigsaw of creating world peace and
harmony. I strongly urge and hope to inspire you to begin to look deeply
into everyday occurrences which trigger you and bring up feelings of
uncomfortableness in you.
This is your flag point and indicator of which you need to stop and pay
attention to the learning and lesson hidden within.
As i looked deeply into my experience i wanted to know more and like a
child i kept asking myself…..but why?……but why? And to my great delight i
received some answers. Why did i firstly look to another for security? Well,
looking back into my childhood i recognised that after my dad left at 2years
i now had one less parent to look to for stability and security. Although i
was well cared for with a roof over my head and food on the table the
dynamics between myself and my mum were not consistent in my
experience. My mum suffers from some mental illness from time to time
and the fluctuation of what this entails contributed to a feeling of insecurity
in me. My mum would do her best to connect with me but at times she
would be unable to provide a connection of stability and security for me.
Looking further back into my family tree the energy of dependence and
patterning of a woman depending on a man and also the energy of
insecurity was able to be seen in my parents and further back down the
lines. Scientists have now proven that beliefs and patterns and trauma can
be passed on and inherited from your predecessors.
So i can see with everyone’s best intentions and capabilities without
investigating this information and working with it one would feel frustrated
like you were fighting an unknown force.
I have recalled and looked further into three past life experiences where i
have lived a life of trauma and pain and i have worked to resolve these
grievances of these parts of myself to integrate all of these aspects
harmoniously.(these stories are another tale to tell another day!)
So back to the experience. I looked closer and saw myself standing there
feeling rejected and abandoned by the other person. The self i saw was a
young child aspect of myself who was holding dearly onto her suffering, her
story and needs. Being an only child until the age of 12years i had little
context as to how you would have your needs met and suffering addressed
without almost demanding they be heard and dealt with now. If i had grown
up with siblings i would have had the opportunity to see how possibly
everyone could be heard and seen by their mum and dad without it being a
self importance struggle.
I asked for some guidance as to how do i heal the part that is insecure.
Firstly it was clear that i needed to understand and know that stability and
security is already a part of myself and it is there for me to realise this.
Secondly i was presented with a wonderful image during the meditation
which showed a great enlightened teacher Thich Nhat Hahn in front of a
class. All the people in the class were all parts of myself all hanging on to
their hurts and struggles and desperately wanting to be the one he chose to
talk to first. This vision continued until it included friends and family in the
class as well. As each person got to connect to him and talk about their
hurts i became lighter in the struggle i was feeling. It then became clear
that these struggles, insecurities and hurts are not only my own and in
trying to remain self important with them (in the hope that i will be helped
and relieved) was a learned behavior from my experience as an only child
and it was not the way to resolve it. I discovered that as each person was
helped and enlightened so was a part of myself showing me that we are not
separate and that my pain is your pain, your hurt is my hurt.
In seeing this great epiphany i knew then that really the saying ‘treat
others as you would like to be treated’ is very very important and alludes to
the greater truth that we are all one connected living organism and in
showing compassion, care and support for another by removing our self
importance from our own struggles we help the other person and in doing
so help ourselves. There is no separation.
I am continually discovering these understandings within myself and
when working with my clients. IF you feel inspired to. Look deeply today
and if you need some assistance lets make a time to chat and begin
evolving:)
Peace and Blessings Storme

 

 

 

 

 

 

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